Social plans
For the friend group that keeps making plans you don't want to make.
When you have to cancel your friend's birthday dinner
I committed to my friend's birthday dinner tonight and I cannot make it. I want to cancel in a way that makes them feel loved, not abandoned…
When you have to RSVP no to a wedding you said yes to
I RSVP'd yes to a wedding and now I genuinely cannot go. I need to walk it back kindly, without making the couple feel like a reschedule.
When the group chat is brunching and you're not built for it
The group chat is planning brunch and I do not want to brunch this Saturday. I want to opt out without making it about my mood.
When you have to cancel date night without a fight
I committed to date night and I genuinely cannot do it tonight. I need to cancel in a way that makes my partner feel chosen, not deprioritiz…
When you can't make your friend's housewarming
My friend is hosting a housewarming and I can't go. I want to send a real reason that doesn't sound made up, and follow up to actually see t…
When the bachelorette is a destination you can't afford
My friend's bachelorette is in another city, expensive, and I cannot do it. I need to decline without it being about money — or, if it is, i…
When the group trip is happening and you cannot
The group trip is two weeks away and I need to pull out. I want to do it early enough that the planning isn't wrecked, and gracefully enough…
When you can't make the baby shower and feel terrible
A friend is having a baby shower I committed to and I can't make it. I want to send something that goes beyond a card and shows I actually c…
When you're staying in again and the group chat is judging
I am bowing out of plans for the third Friday in a row. The group chat is starting to comment. I want to acknowledge it without overpromisin…
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