What if they deny taking credit or get defensive?

Stay calm. Stick to facts: 'I worked on X, you presented it as yours, I need it corrected.' Don't argue about intent. If they won't budge, document the work (emails, files, timestamps) and loop in your manager. You're not accusing them of malice—you're enforcing accuracy.

Should I wait to talk to them privately or call it out in a group?

Private first. It gives them room to fix it without losing face, which usually makes them more likely to cooperate. If they refuse or it happens again, then you escalate to your manager or bring it up in the group setting.

How do I say this without sounding bitter or petty?

Focus on the work, not the person. 'That output came from me' is different from 'You're a liar.' Keep sentences short and factual. No tone-policing yourself—you're allowed to be upset. Just don't pretend you're not.

What if they say we both worked on it and they just didn't mention me?

If you were a real contributor, say so: 'Right, we both worked on it. That's exactly why both our names need to be on it.' If they minimized your role, be specific: 'I did the research and the framework. I need that credited.'

Could this damage our relationship or my job security?

Not speaking up damages you more. Someone willing to take credit for your work will keep doing it if you let them. A healthy workplace respects a direct conversation about credit. If your job is threatened for asking for fair credit, that's a bigger red flag than the conversation itself.

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how to tell your coworker they stole your credit

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Your work got presented as someone else's. That's not a misunderstanding—that's a choice they made, and you get to address it directly.

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DRAFT 01AILOW RISKdirect, factual, non-negotiable

I noticed the project we worked on together was presented as your solo work. I need you to acknowledge my contribution in the next meeting or email.

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DRAFT 02AILOW RISKcalm, matter-of-fact, collaborative

Hey, I'm going to need a quick chat about the report. I did the analysis, and I'd like credit for that part—let's figure out how to make that clear.

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DRAFT 03AILOW RISKowns the boundary, no anger required

I'm not upset, but I do need you to understand: I did this work. Going forward, I need it credited correctly.

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DRAFT 04AILOW RISKserious, consequence-clear

When you presented that as your own, that put me in a bad position. I need you to send a correction email or I'm going to have to escalate this.

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DRAFT 05AILOW RISKassumes good faith, holds firm

I'm calling this out because I respect you and our working relationship. But I can't let this slide. I did that work.

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DRAFT 06AILOW RISKleaves room for accident, still direct

I realize you might not have done this on purpose, but the result is that my work got credited to you. Let's fix it today.

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