When's the best time to ask for a raise?

After you've delivered measurable results. After a successful project. After your review cycle. After your company has good news. Pick one. Then request a specific meeting — don't ambush it. Email: 'I'd like to discuss my compensation. Do you have 20 minutes this week?'

How much should I ask for?

Research your role on salary sites. Look at your industry, location, experience level. Ask for 10–20% more than you currently make — or propose the market rate. Bring the numbers. Your manager will respect the homework more than a wild guess.

What if my manager says no?

Ask what needs to happen for a yes. Is it timing? Performance? Skills? Get specific. Then build a plan. 'Okay — if I lead this project and hit these metrics, can we revisit in six months?' Write it down. Follow up.

Should I mention what other companies pay?

Sure — but frame it as market research, not a threat. 'Based on industry data, the range for this role is X to Y' lands better than 'My friend at another company makes Z.' Numbers feel less personal.

Can I ask for a raise over email or video call?

In-person is strongest. You read the room. You can pause and breathe. Video call is second best. Email is last — it's easy to ignore, and tone gets weird. If you must use email, keep it short and ask for a call.

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asking for a raise without sounding desperate or delusional

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You've been staring at your salary for months. The number hasn't moved. Your skills have. This is the conversation that either changes everything or confirms your worst fears — so of course you're nervous.

The trick isn't sounding confident (nobody feels confident). It's sounding *prepared*. Built a script? You just walked in with a reason instead of a request.

Examples

Six ways to say it.

DRAFT 01AILOW RISKdata-driven, respectful

I'd like to talk about my compensation. I've taken on three major projects since my last review, and I've got numbers showing the impact. I'm proposing an increase to $X. When could we schedule that conversation?

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DRAFT 02AILOW RISKdirect, owns market research

Look, I love what I do here. But the market rate for my role is $X, and I'm currently at $Y. I'm not asking for charity — I'm asking for fair market value. Can we talk about that?

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DRAFT 03AILOW RISKhonest, slightly vulnerable

I've been thinking about my growth here, and I want to be honest: my skills have outpaced my salary. I'd like to discuss bringing my compensation in line with what I'm actually contributing. Would you be open to that?

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DRAFT 04AILOW RISKacknowledges reality, confident

I know compensation isn't always top-of-mind, but it matters to me. I've delivered results — and I've got specific examples. I'd like to propose a raise to $X and talk through what that looks like.

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DRAFT 05AILOW RISKvulnerable, builds case

This isn't easy to bring up. But I've outgrown my current role in every way except my paycheck. I think I deserve a raise to $X. Here's why — and here's what I'd deliver in return.

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DRAFT 06AILOW RISKwarm, mutually respectful

I respect you, and I respect this company. But I also respect my own value. My market research shows $X is fair. I'd like to work with you to get there. When could we discuss it?

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