What if they get defensive when I ask?

Stay calm and specific. Don't accuse; just restate facts. 'I'm not saying you did it maliciously, but I wrote that section.' If they argue, you've already said your piece. Sometimes people need a moment to sit with it. Don't chase them into agreement.

Should I ask privately or in front of others?

Private first. Give them a chance to fix it without losing face. If they don't, then you can mention it in group settings: 'Just to clarify, I handled the research part.' Keep it factual, not accusatory. Saves the relationship while protecting your reputation.

What if this is my boss who took credit?

Power dynamics matter here. Lead with something collaborative: 'I want to make sure my contributions are clear for my review cycle.' If it's a pattern and they won't budge, document your work and consider looping in HR. You shouldn't have to choose between speaking up and your job.

How do I avoid sounding petty or bitter?

Focus on the future, not the crime. Say 'I'd like credit for my work going forward' instead of 'You stole from me.' Talk about what you need, not what they did wrong. One is boundary-setting; the other is blame. Pick the first.

What if I wait too long to say something?

You can still bring it up, but anchor it differently: 'Hey, remember that project from last month? I realized we never clarified my role in it.' It's late, but it's not weird. Better late than never letting it happen again without pushback.

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Scripts for asking your coworker to give you credit

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You built something. They took it. Now you're supposed to just... let it live in their name? No.

This isn't about being petty. It's about standing in your own work. Below are scripts that let you address it directly—with enough grace that you can still look them in the eye, but enough spine that they actually hear you. Pick one, adapt it, and own what's yours.

Examples

Six ways to say it.

DRAFT 01AILOW RISKmeasured, professional, future-focused

Hey, I wanted to circle back on the project you presented yesterday. I realized I didn't mention this in the moment, but I did the bulk of the analysis and research on that. I'd really appreciate if we could clarify my role when you talk about it going forward.

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DRAFT 02AILOW RISKowns it, calm, collaborative

I'm going to be direct because I respect you: I did most of that work. I'm not asking for the whole spotlight—just for my actual role to be named. How do we fix that?

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DRAFT 03AILOW RISKlight, specific, boundary-setting

Quick thing—I noticed the presentation today didn't mention that I wrote the strategy section. That's a part I'm proud of, and it matters to my track record. Can we make sure that gets attributed properly?

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DRAFT 04AILOW RISKvulnerable, honest, clear

I want to be honest with you: I felt a little invisible when you presented that as your work. I put real effort in, and I need credit for what I did. I'm not trying to take anything from you—just my own stuff back.

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DRAFT 05AILOW RISKappeals to relationship, forward-facing

I'm bringing this up because it matters to me, and because I think we work well together. But I need you to know I did X, Y, and Z on that project. Going forward, I'd like that to be visible.

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DRAFT 06AILOW RISKgives grace, prevents future repetition

Look, I know you didn't mean anything by it, but claiming credit for my work puts me in an awkward position. I'd rather talk about it now than let it become a pattern. Let's figure out how to handle this one and future projects.

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