When should I ask for a raise?

After a win (project shipped, promotion deserved, successful review), or if your last raise was 12+ months ago. Avoid during layoffs or when the company's struggling. Schedule it, don't ambush. Friday afternoons and Monday mornings are bad—aim for mid-week.

What number should I ask for?

Research your role on Glassdoor, Levels.fyi, or industry reports. Ask for 10–20% more than you make now, or match market rate—whichever is higher. Your manager expects negotiation. Give a range if asked, with your target as the floor.

What if my manager says no?

Don't panic. Ask what needs to happen for a raise to be possible. Set a concrete timeline—"Can we revisit this in six months?" Get it in writing. Then hit those milestones and follow up.

Should I mention other job offers?

Only if you have one and you're serious about leaving. Otherwise, it sounds like a bluff and damages trust. Stick to your value, market rate, and contributions instead.

How do I stay calm if I get nervous?

Practice your pitch out loud first. Write down three key wins or responsibilities. Remember: you're sharing facts, not begging. Your manager hired you because you're valuable. They'll take you seriously if you do.

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DRAFT 01AILOW RISKdata-driven, prepared

Hi [Manager], I'd like to schedule 15 minutes to discuss my compensation. I've taken on [specific project/responsibility] and my contributions have grown since we last talked about pay. I have some data I'd like to walk through.

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DRAFT 02AILOW RISKwarm, direct

I've really enjoyed the work on [project]. I wanted to check in about my salary—it hasn't moved since [timeframe], and I'd like it to reflect what I'm doing now.

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DRAFT 03AILOW RISKmarket-aware, calm

Can we talk about my compensation? I've taken on more responsibility and my market rate has shifted. I'd like to discuss bringing my salary in line with that.

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DRAFT 04AILOW RISKconfident, organized

I want to talk about my pay. I've grown a lot here and I'm contributing at a [senior/lead/specific] level now. I put together some context—when would be a good time?

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DRAFT 05AILOW RISKstraightforward, timeline-based

My last raise was [timeframe] ago. I'm really happy with my role, and I think it's time to revisit my salary to match my contributions. Do you have time this week to chat?

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DRAFT 06AILOW RISKowns it, prepared

I'd like to discuss a salary increase. I've been thinking about my growth here and what I bring to the team. I have a specific number in mind and I'd love your thoughts.

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