How much notice should I give before arriving late?

As soon as you know. If you realize it now, text now. Don't wait until you're supposed to be there. Most managers care way more about the heads-up than the lateness itself. Ideally give 10-15 minutes notice, but immediately is better than late.

Should I apologize or just state the facts?

Keep it brief. A light "sorry" is fine, but don't overdo it. Focus on what happened, when you'll arrive, and what you're doing about your work. Managers respect directness more than excessive apologies.

What if I don't know exactly when I'll arrive?

Give your best estimate plus a small buffer. Say "I'm aiming for 9:30, could be 9:45" rather than guessing wildly. If it changes, send a quick follow-up. Honesty about uncertainty beats confident guesses that fall apart.

Is text message okay, or should I call?

Text first. It's faster, creates a record, and doesn't interrupt them. If your workplace culture is really call-heavy, follow that norm. But a professional text with your ETA works in most modern offices.

What excuses are acceptable vs. sounds like I'm making it up?

Anything real works: traffic, car trouble, childcare issues, appointments running over. You don't need to elaborate. One sentence of explanation is enough. Vague excuses sound worse than specific ones, even if the specific one isn't glamorous.

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You're stuck in traffic. Your kid missed the bus. Your alarm didn't go off. Whatever happened, you need to tell your manager now—not later, not when you arrive, but *right now*.

The goal isn't to make excuses sound creative. It's to be honest, take responsibility, and show you've got a plan. A good message is brief, factual, and tells them when you'll actually be there. Here are some templates you can adapt to your actual situation.

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DRAFT 01AILOW RISKowns it, specific timeline

Hi [Manager], I'm running about 20 minutes late due to an unexpected issue at home. I'll be in by 9:15 and will catch up on [specific task] when I arrive.

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DRAFT 02AILOW RISKdirect, offers workaround

Morning—traffic is worse than expected and I'm looking at arriving around 9:30. I'll have [project/task] ready by 10. Let me know if anything urgent comes up.

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DRAFT 03AILOW RISKbrief, shows prep

I'm running late this morning—car trouble. ETA 9:20. I've already prepped [X], so I can jump straight into [Y] when I get there.

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DRAFT 04AILOW RISKcasual, short notice

Hi [Manager], got held up unexpectedly and I'm about 15 minutes behind. I'll be there by 9:10. Thanks for the heads up.

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DRAFT 05AILOW RISKpractical, solution-focused

Running late due to [specific reason]. I'll be in by [time]. I've blocked the afternoon for [task] if anything's urgent this morning.

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DRAFT 06AILOW RISKcollaborative, offers help

Not going to make my usual arrival time—[reason]. I'll be in by [time]. Do you need me to handle anything remotely in the meantime?

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