Should I call instead of text?

Text first so they have a written record and can see it immediately even if busy. A call is polite but takes them away from their current client. Keep it to a quick message.

What if I'm more than 30 minutes late?

Definitely offer to reschedule as your primary option. They may have booked someone else after you. A long delay shows respect for their time and other clients' appointments.

Is it rude to ask them to wait?

Not if you phrase it as an option they can refuse. By giving them choice, you're putting the ball in their court rather than acting entitled. They'll tell you what works.

Should I apologize multiple times in the message?

One solid apology is enough. Overdoing it sounds anxious and takes up space that could be useful info like your ETA. They'll hear you the first time.

What if this is my second or third time being late?

Acknowledge the pattern briefly without being self-flagellating. "I know I've been late before and I'm sorry" is honest. Then actually fix it—set phone reminders, leave earlier, or reschedule for a time that works better.

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When you're running 22 minutes late to your hair appointment

Running late to a hair appointment feels like you've personally wronged the stylist, their schedule, and possibly the salon's reputation. The good news? A honest, options-forward text can turn this from "ugh, another no-show risk" to "okay, they're being real with us." Get ahead of it now.

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DRAFT 01AILOW RISK

I apologize—I'm running approximately 22 minutes behind schedule. I'll arrive around [TIME]. If that conflicts with your next appointment, please let me know and I can reschedule at your convenience.

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DRAFT 02AILOW RISK

I wanted to give you a heads-up that I'm currently 22 minutes behind. Would it work to squeeze me in at [TIME], or would it be better to book another slot? I'm flexible either way.

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When to send

Text the moment you realize you'll be late—don't wait until you're 5 minutes away.

What to do after

If they say reschedule, book immediately and follow through; if they say come ahead, actually show up on time next appointment.

Don't

Don't send excuses without an ETA, and don't assume they'll just squeeze you in without asking.

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